By, Melissa Archer
DEEP THOUGHTS
From Indifference to Engagement: What Changed My Perspective
If you’ve followed my writings, you know that I’ve usually taken a centrist stance. However, in recent years, I’ve found myself leaning more to the left. Here’s why. I believed the middle was a fair space, where I could see both sides and find common ground. This allowed me to think outside of party lines. My biggest challenge was always thinking critically about who I was voting for and why.
Aching Inside and Out
Empathy has always been a significant part of who I am, feeling others' pain both emotionally and physically. This past year, my journey with TikTok has exposed me to the harsh realities of global conflicts, especially the ongoing crisis between Israel and Palestine. Through first-hand accounts and raw footage, I've witnessed the unimaginable suffering of innocent civilians. This post reflects on how social media has broadened my understanding and the deep emotional impact it has had on me, calling for a need for compassion and a middle ground in our polarized world.
Independence Day…for Some
Independence Day should celebrate freedom for all, yet America's past and present reveal a different story. This post reflects on the nation's history, from the treatment of indigenous people and enslaved individuals to contemporary issues like systemic racism, women's rights, and LGBTQ+ equality. Join me in exploring how we can strive for a truly just and inclusive society.
Everything Changed
This year has been a transformative journey from religious conditioning to personal freedom. Discover how I dismantled old beliefs, overcame trauma, and embraced a new lifestyle filled with joy, adventure, and authenticity. Join me in reflecting on the challenges and triumphs that led to my happiest year yet.
Right vs Wrong
Navigating the complexities of right and wrong isn't always clear-cut. Join me as I explore how embracing the middle ground can lead to greater empathy, understanding, and compassion in a divided world. Discover the power of seeing multiple perspectives and finding balance in conflict.
Farewell 2021
Reflecting on a year filled with loss and transformation, I explore how adversity has led to growth and new beginnings. Join me in embracing the lessons of 2021 and looking forward to a hopeful 2022.
Speak
In a world filled with conflicting viewpoints, speaking up and embracing diverse perspectives is more important than ever. This post explores the significance of authenticity, respectful debate, and the journey to understanding truth. Discover why it's crucial to speak and stand for what you believe in.
That Icky Word - Repentance
Repentance often carries negative connotations, but it's truly a journey of love and transformation. Discover how understanding and embracing repentance can lead to genuine personal and spiritual growth through my own experiences.
Surrender - Huh?
Surrendering control can seem impossible, but it's a transformative step towards a more authentic life. Discover practical steps to let go and trust in a higher power, embracing spiritual growth and personal transformation.
You Are Enough
In a world constantly telling us we're not enough, it's crucial to embrace self-love and reject harmful consumer messages. Discover the power of positive affirmations and learn to see your true worth.
The Morning After the First Day of the Rest of My Life
Waking up to the first day of the rest of my life after asking for a divorce, I find myself questioning everything. This journey of self-discovery and personal growth is just beginning.
TRUTH
From illusions to enlightenment, this is the story of a journey towards truth. Discover the power of self-discovery, faith, and the courage to face the raw beauty of reality.
How Do You See?
During shelter in place, amidst the challenges and uncertainties, I found unexpected beauty and deeper connections. This reflection explores the positive changes and hopes for a better future.
What a Year
As 2019 comes to a close, I reflect on a year filled with significant changes, accomplishments, and personal growth. From writing a book to healing from an accident, it's been a transformative journey.
The Greatest Relationship I’ve Ever Had
A story of transformation from confusion and fear to love and faith. Discover how I found the greatest relationship I've ever had.
Dear Men,
I am a very strong, very independent woman. I was raised to lean on myself and never to need a man. I wasn’t taught this so I could become a feminist, or hate men, or be alone, rather I was taught this so that the bar for the man I chose would need to be higher. It’s taken me years to understand this.
2018-Year of Renewal
As 2018 begins, let's shed our old skin and set out to exceed our goals. Focus, discipline, and kindness will lead us to a year of renewal and growth.
Deep Thoughts
Overthinking can be a double-edged sword. Discover how to navigate an obsessive mind with mindfulness, self-forgiveness, and practical strategies for personal growth.
Will you be heard?
In a time of unprecedented division, can we choose love over hate? This reflection explores the power of compassion in creating a better world.
Growing, Learning, Loving
Reflecting on the lessons learned and the goals set for personal growth in 2017. Join me in embracing humility, breaking down walls, and empowering others.